We hadn’t been married for even eight months when decided to get
ourselves a dog. We now lived in a little house with a yard and John had almost
always had a dog. So, we answered an ad in the newspaper for a free
dog…supposedly a cocker spaniel. Back in those days, you didn’t have to fill
out any paperwork, or have your home inspected before you could bring your new
puppy home. We brought him home the same day and he was so little he could sit
in one of my hands, and my hands are not huge.
He was all black and we decided to call him Fang, Fang the
Wonder Dog. He had a terrible first night away from his family, so I brought
him into bed with us. Of course, he peed at some point and I had to change the
entire bed. Bad dog!!!
Back then, you also weren’t asked how long your puppy would be
home alone during the day, so when we returned to work after the weekend, Fang
was left alone in the laundry room, the floor covered with papers. It was
spring, so it wasn’t long before we allowed him to stay outside on a leash
during the day. Two things I remember from this time in Fang’s life. First, I
used to hang all my sheets out on the clothesline. Without measuring Fang’s
leash, I hung them out and came home to find Fang had amused himself for the
entire day by removing and dragging my clean sheets all over the yard. The
second thing I remember was that the laundry room imprinted as his bathroom. If
the door was open and Fang had to go, he would run back inside the laundry room
to do his business.
Fang was our first child. He went everywhere with us. If we
visited friends, went for a drive, camping, whatever the excursion, Fang rode
along. He was welcomed in all our friend’s homes, even when the first time he
saw a Christmas tree he walked over and lifted his leg. Fortunately, he’d just
gone outside so there wasn’t much. He didn’t do that again.
When AJ was born and got big enough to go out into the
neighborhood by himself, Fang appointed himself AJ’s keeper. Years later
neighbors told me they always knew to slow way down because if they saw Fang
that meant AJ wasn’t far away. Fang quit sleeping in our room and took up
sleeping with AJ once he graduated from a crib to a real bed.
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| AJ, John & Fang |
The vet told us at one point that only one of Fang’s testicles
had descended, but that didn’t dampen his desire for a female in heat. His
first conquest was an escaped purebred dog from up the street. When her
owner came looking for her, John had to tell the owner he’d bring her home as
soon as the dogs were finished. Apparently, Fang got stuck and couldn’t
disengage. When returned, his first love was immediately taken to the vet and
spade. Alas, no cute black and white puppies.
Much
later on, when Fang was really old enough to know better, the ugliest dog in
the world went into heat. It was freezing cold and about 2:00 am and Fang hadn’t
come back home after being let out. John was sure he was at the neighbors
hoping to get lucky and refused to walk down the icy street to get him. So, I
did and there was Fang, shivering like he’d never get warm, sitting on their
back porch waiting and hoping that he’d get an opportunity. I had to pick him
up and carry him home because he wasn’t leaving on his own…isn’t that a male
for you!
Actually, Fang did get lucky at least once with this ugly female
because the last puppy born to her was black. Immediately AJ and the owners
began a campaign to get us to adopt Fang’s progeny, but that’s another story.
Like us all, Fang grew older and older. First he became deaf and
then blind. On our last trip to our friend’s farm he went along as always. Fang
was the only dog ever allowed in their house because the resident dogs were
farm dogs. He took the privilege seriously and never had a single accident.
Anyway,
as always, there was a big get together of our friend’s huge family. At one
point all the kids went down the road to the horse pasture. Later on, when it
was time for us to leave, we couldn’t find Fang anywhere. You would have
thought we had misplaced our two-year-old. Absolutely everyone turned out
looking for Fang. He was eventually found down the road in the middle of the
horse pasture having followed the kids when they went. He was just standing
there waiting and knowing that someone would come and rescue him.
Fang lived with us for 17.5 years and in the end, he was blind,
deaf and we had to pick him up and carry him outside so he could do his
business. The day before the last trip to the vet John dug a hole under the
apple tree. He went to work sad and depressed and AJ went to school sad and
depressed. It was up to me to take him to the vet…how hard could that be?
I mean, really, Fang was just a dog. It was then I understood that pets really become
one of the family.
I called my neighbor to ask if she’d watch Thor while I did this
errand. As soon as she answered the phone and before I could even speak, I
began to cry. I had to repeat myself because she couldn’t understand me. I
cried all the way to the vet. When the vet came to get Fang, I wouldn’t let him
go, but had to accompany him. I watched while the vet shaved his paw and
stuck the needle in, all the while rubbing, reassuring and talking to Fang even though I knew he couldn't hear me. I
managed to ask how long after the needle came out and the vet told me it was
done. I cried harder.
The vet helped me put Fang into a special bag John had readied
and I took him back home, but I couldn’t stand the thought of him lying in the
garage getting cold and stiff until everyone came back home again. Instead, and
perhaps this was selfish of me, I put him in the hole with the Christmas
stocking I’d made for him his first year with us wrapped around his head and
covered him up.
We went out for pizza that night, and it was a pretty somber
dinner except for Thor. Once he understood why we were all sad, he wanted to go
home and dig Fang up. The following fall, we harvested Fang apples from our
tree and remembered him fondly with stories like those above. Then, too, we had
his daughter with us, so he continued to live on and not just in apple pies.